5 Reasons to Explain Why Men Open Fake Profiles on Lesbian Dating Sites

At first I would like to mention that I am not talking about all men. In fact this article is only about that particular percentage of men who are doing that and unfortunately that percentage is growing rapidly. Presently few lesbian dating sites (where Admin maintains regular direct contact with members) don't allow Indian, Pakistani and Bangladeshi people as members because of that same issue. On the contrary, decent people of LGBT+ community have stopped using these dating sites in fear of fake profiles and it means very few like us who needs material for their social studies only roaming these 'no-go-zones' desperately in search of some authentic profiles. However, question remains why so many men are doing that purposefully and my studies found following 5 reasons behind that particular kind of behaviour:

1. Ignorance: The cruel reality of human civilization is "Not only enlightened people even Ignorant also comes in various shapes and sizes"; and when I am talking about ignorance then it might be ignorance about how to fill-up the self introductory forms given by the sites. These types of ignorant are mostly middle-aged men who are looking for thrill online without basic knowledge of English. Personally I am ready to forgive them and I often do.

Meanwhile those individuals who are young and educated but still making the same mistakes because they are not bothered to pay attention to the details and basically they waste minimum time on self - introductory form fill-up procedure. I don't know how to forgive these men, however I can't do anything else except avoiding them. However, my question for these types of people is "what kind of attention you expect from others when you are not ready to be attentive towards yourself"?

Apart from these two types of men there are another type of ignorant men as well. Who are not aware about homosexuality. Just because they don't know that's why they don't believe it and as a direct consequence they end up at the different dating sites for that auspicious 'alien encounter'.

2. Arrogance: Basically arrogance is directly proportionate to our belief system. Now put that entire perception in the following manner:

"We know there is something called 'lesbian' but we don't believe that. After all two girls - what would they do with each other? Therefore they are not lesbians, they are just typical heterosexuals in search of real men."

Well! The definition of 'real men' could vary from 'man' to 'man'. On the basis of my personal opinion I can say about few men's believe system, such as 'man who is physically strong'; 'man who is good on bed'; 'man who is economically successful'; 'man who has a soft feminine heart' etc.

More precisely for them "a woman claiming to be as a lesbian because she has not found the perfect man (like me) and now it's my responsibility to match the shoe with the foot."

3. Social Responsibilities: This breed is self-proclaimed SAMAJ SUDHARAK (Social Reformer) and they actually believe their relentless effort can bring changes in the (Homosexual) communities. That's why they try to pursue lesbians. Initially they shows enormous persistency to befriend with them and then basically what they do that is 'reforming sexual orientation'. So far, I came to know dozens of such men of various professions who claimed they have experienced by themselves that homosexuals are becoming heterosexuals under 'proper guidance'.

"What kind of future a girl can have with another girl? What would they do together? They can't have kids. Society would not accept them. It's against our religion and our culture as well. Therefore, for best interest of humanity they should 'convert'. Afterall if everyone become homosexual then who would procreate and what will be our future as a species? As a species we would extinct for that modern mental health issue. Don't you think that's totally unacceptable?"

: That above-mentioned phrase was excerpt of an IIT-Kharagpur alumni (happily married with two kids) who was pretty persistent in his job to convince me in order to get few lesbian's contacts for his evangelical mission. I would call these men social reformers since they have their own families (Wink! Wink!), therefore they should not have any other immoral intention (LOL). Am I right?

4. Sexual Fantasies: These types of men are extremely clever but pretty predictable for me. Generally they introduced themselves as gay, outgoing, generous and in search of 'like-minded' women only. I have never seen any 'lesbians who are outgoing and generous, still scouting dating sites for like-minded men'. In fact, it's pretty opposite for lesbians, many lesbians mention on their profiles that, they don't wished to be disturbed by men (though it does not minimize their ordeal). However, after initiation of conversation, they apparently change their sexual orientation and claimed themselves as 'open minded bisexuals'. Now what? Any kind of permutation and combination could be and would be on their fantasy list and if you are their friend then it's your responsibility to become their 'Santa' as well! Would not you?

5. Homophobia: Homophobic men are pretty strait-forward, abusive and as transparent as plus200 & minus200 (use your imagination) bifocal glass. They open account because they are lonely, desperately seeking company of opposite sex, but failed miserably to impress any girl so far and for them it is the lesbians who are giving them such tough competition. Therefore as an act of revenge they open fake account and abuse lesbians anyway and every way possible.

These five reasons that I have identified so far. If you can find more than these five reasons please feel free to contact me on mahua.biswas83@gmail.com or tweet me @biswas_mahua to share your opinion.

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